I think it's healthy to disagree with your friends or whoever you're close to. It annoys me when people always agree with their friend but they really don't. Just say how you really feel, easier said then done but still Unfortunately this one friend I had was completely out of line. She made a post pretty much bashing authors who write certain fics and that really upset me. She just wasn't the person, I thought she was after all when I saw how she treated others who disagreed with her I can't stand people like that in general though really. I treasure my friendships sure, but if they treat someone different because of what that person writes or reads? I don't accept that behavior from anyone.
Ah sorry if I rambled through this But I do think friends can disagree with one another.
Ha ha I know XD I mean I have nothing against homosexuals at all. I'm a supporter of gay rights and so are most gender bender authors...she has to face reality that not everyone will agree with her. I learn to live with the fact, not everyone likes yaoi or shounen ai for example. That's just life.
Sorry if I ranted by the way. People like that just...erk me.